Where could i find a woman who can cook and clean house good without grumbling and cussing...?

i meet flo and we married she works at a restraunt and will not cook a bite of food at home ,and im near starving and have to eat at the free soup kitchen where they have hot free food ,,should i dump the ***** and marry another woman who can cook and clean? any advice would be good..she get up raveing and shouts and my little house dog flip and once she threw him out for pissing in the hall. she never smiles and im thinking she is seeing the cook at the cafe... she snores and never give me a good word...