My one month old baby?

fed, held all the time, put to the crib-10 minutes later cries..does not like the pacifier, kicks off her swaddle, i rock her, walk her, burp her, change her, given her music, tried everything! i like holding her but i need some sleep! can i just wait til she's 3months old to let her cry it out? it sounds cruel..will it get better?